Honestly, I think many people fail at this point
Being too enthusiastic, once they think they smell an opportunity
Like a bloodthirsty shark biting onto the other person
Unless you're the other person's type
Like super handsome with lots of advantages, basically Takeshi Kaneshiro
Otherwise this behavior is often a big mistake
In this scenario, I've thrown the ball
And the other person, interested, has returned the invite
90% of guys think it's a done deal
But to me, it's not that simple
You throw the ball, she hits it
It just means the game has a chance to start
This piece of meat is already at your mouth~
You can smell that wonderful taste of flesh
But it doesn't mean you've eaten it yet
Assuming you know how to balance it, your judgment at this moment
Depends on how enthusiastically the girl responds to you
When she's just acting on a sudden impulse with some courage
What I do is give her positive feedback enthusiastically
But appropriately, so she knows the initiative is still in her hands
She can back out anytime 😅
We've opened the communication channel between both sides
As for whether she wants to move forward, no pressure
This way, for her
Her first strike of courage gives her the choice of whether to proceed
At least she knows, if she wants it~ she can have it
If she doesn't~ she can still refuse
Then when you enthusiastically ask about the invite details
She won't feel pressured by the emotions
Instead, she'll feel affirmed by your appreciation
Because you also really want her and like her, showing that desire
In summary
Before you've put your dick in her pussy
It's never the time to feel secure
Learn to leave some space for the other person while being enthusiastic
This way, whether you succeed in the end or not
At least you can maintain a gentlemanly demeanor
And this failure will be nourishment for the next time
Being canceled by a girl today
Doesn't mean you'll be canceled in the future
It's just temporarily missing the chance to meet
Or more likely, dodging a disaster
Let's encourage each other
Just personal sharing