<img src="https://static2.fansone.co/images/1abc189d-24e5-4853-92ab-f581a0433d9b.avif" />《What's Wrong with Holding Grudges? Not Taking Revenge Is Already My Greatest Kindness》 In the past, I always thought one should be more generous. When others said the wrong thing, let it go.When friends were rude, let it go.When relatives didn't understand me, let it go.When I gave without receiving a single thank you, I told myself to let it go. Even when someone asked, “Why do you hold grudges so much?” I thought about it for a long time. Only later did I realize I don't enjoy holding grudges; I have simply started remembering the times those things hurt me. Remembering doesn't mean I want to take revenge on anyone. I can choose not to argue, not to make a scene, not to dig up old accounts, and I don't need to prove who was right or wrong; but from those experiences I can learn who to keep closer next time and who to keep at a distance. Not taking revenge is already my greatest kindness.Not letting the same person hurt me a second time is my responsibility to myself. Especially after growing up, I understand more and more that a person's money, time, energy, and emotions are all actually limited. Taking a long trip for a non-paying collaboration may seem to bring a meal, a product, or a photo, but transportation, makeup, hair, shooting, editing, writing copy, and an entire day of time are all costs. To maintain a relationship, always being the one to initiate contact, invitations, treating others, or sending gifts eventually reveals that what truly exhausts people is never “not having many friends,” but constantly trying to hold on to those who don't cherish you the same way. Sometimes family says, “Stop running around looking for friends and relatives, and stop accepting every free collaboration.” It used to sound harsh. I even wondered if my own family was rejecting me. But from another angle, perhaps the part really worth listening to is: “With the limited resources you have right now, you should save them for what truly matters.” It's not that you can't make friends, but you don't have to pour your heart out to everyone. It's not that you can't do free collaborations, but you should ask yourself: Can this bring work, exposure, connections, experience, or the chance for a paid collaboration next time? It's not that you can't be kind to others, but before being kind, check how much you have left for yourself. In the past I might have thought, “As long as I'm good enough to others, they will like me.” Now I hope to learn: Being good to you is my choice;Whether you cherish it is your choice.If you don't cherish it, I also have the choice to leave. This isn't becoming cold. It simply means I finally have boundaries. True kindness is not letting everyone endlessly use your time, money, and emotions. Truly mature kindness knows when to reach out and when to pull back. So I can still remember the things that once made me sad. But I don't need to live with hatred. Turn hurt into experience, disappointment into the ability to filter people, and time once spent in the wrong places into investment in myself. Eat well, work well, create well. Take photos when I want, write when I want; finish worthwhile collaborations seriously and learn to decline those that aren't. Friends don't have to be many; as long as there's give and take, it's fine. Relatives don't have to stay in constant contact; as long as both sides are comfortable, it's fine. As for those who have already left, there's no need to keep chasing after them asking, “Why don't you like me?” Because in the adult world, not everyone will like each other. I can be kind, but I don't have to please.I can forgive, but I don't have to get close again.I can remember, but I don't have to take revenge.I can lose some people, but I can't lose myself again. Thank you for everything that has happened. Good things teach me to cherish; bad things teach me to discern. Those hurts weren't suffered in vain; they are reminding me: From now on, save travel money for places worth going, time for things worth doing, gifts for people who know how to cherish, and sincerity for those willing to give back. And the most important kindness— Starting today, keep it for myself.♡ #WhatsWrongWithHoldingGrudges #NotTakingRevengeIsTheGreatestKindness #KindnessNeedsBoundaries #StopPleasing #InterpersonalRelationships #FriendshipDynamics #FriendshipQuotes #LifeQuotes #GrowthQuotes #LearnToSayNo #SetBoundaries #ProtectYourself #LoveYourself #StopInternalDrain #EmotionalHealing #DeclutterAndLetGo #AdultSocializing #ClearMindedAdult #PutYourselfFirst #CherishYourself #GentleYetFirm #DontWrongYourself #SelfGrowth #LifeInsights #MyLifeMyChoice #StillMeButStronger

《What's Wrong with Holding Grudges? Not Taking Revenge Is Already My Greatest Kindness》

<img src="https://static2.fansone.co/images/0c7e950a-1564-40f2-bf8b-2105dace9fa6.avif" /> 👀✨【Eyes Also Need Proper Care｜YENTSUI Biomedical 「SuperVisionCrystal」】 Sometimes I really feel like a "phone-addicted little fairy" 😂📱Taking photos, editing images, cutting videos, reading comments, scrolling through social media……My eyes are working overtime all day, while I’m still cluelessly thinking: "Huh? It’s already midnight?" (๑•́ ₃ •̀๑) So recently, Xiaobo has started incorporating "daily care" into life, and this time sharing YENTSUI SuperVisionCrystal 👀🌿✨It’s not some magical spell that turns you into sharp-eyed after taking it, and I wouldn’t dare claim that 🤣It’s more like reminding myself: with such heavy daily eye use, it’s time to seriously take care of myself. 🌵Xiaobo’s Usage Scenario As a live streamer, photographer, and KOL, my phone and camera are basically my third hand 📱📷Especially when retouching photos, I often think "just one more look, just one more edit," and before I know it, a whole night has passed……( ˘•ω•˘ ).｡oஇ SuperVisionCrystal comes in a box of 30 capsules, recommended 2 per day, before or after meals, more is not better.I personally treat it as part of my daily nutritional supplement routine, not as medicine, and don’t expect any miraculous effects. 🌟Ingredients I Noticed It contains Lutein, Bilberry Extract, Marigold Extract (containing Zeaxanthin), Black Soybean Hull Extract, Maqui Berry Extract, plus the patented Crystal Bright β-Cryptoxanthin, and lactic acid bacteria-related ingredients. Plant-based capsules, made in Taiwan, 30 capsules per box.The outer box is fully labeled with storage instructions, origin, expiration date, and other information, which is quite reassuring for someone like me who checks the back for ingredients first 👀✨ 💕Xiaobo’s Honest Feelings I believe the most important mindset for supplements is——don’t treat them as a superhero transformer! 🤣 Rest when you need to rest, reduce phone scrolling when you should, nutritional supplements are just one part of life management. If you, like me, use phone, computer, and camera alternately every day, you can gradually build up the habit of "taking care of yourself." ⚠️Reminder: The product label contains milk and its derivatives, not suitable for those with related allergies; suitable for ages 12 and above. Before use, please check the product label to confirm suitability. Friends who want to learn more can check out YENTSUI SuperVisionCrystal, or use the brand’s LINE health consultation to get product information 🎁Xiaobo is going to put the phone farther away……wait, I haven’t finished taking photos yet 🤣📱🌵 Buddhist Quote｜"Taking good care of your body and mind is also a form of compassion; only by knowing how to rest can you go further." 🙏🌿 #YENTSUIBiomed #SuperVisionCrystal #LuteinDaily #DailyCare #NoguchiKonomi Exclusive Link (for fans to order): <a href="https://yentsui.tw/aahhsyl520" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://yentsui.tw/aahhsyl520</a> Discount Code: aahhsyl520

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<img src="https://static2.fansone.co/images/e64149ec-4af3-4651-8787-aefc9e34f5e4.avif" />Recently I finally finished binge-watching Netflix's 《SubscriptionBoyfriend》. After watching, what I thought about the most was surprisingly not romance, but my little brother. When my brother was in college, during New Year he once proudly showed off to relatives: "I have to show off one thing—my sister bought Netflix for me!"😂 Looking back now, this sentence actually makes me feel a bit heartbroken. When we were kids, my younger siblings really seemed to believe in me as their big sister. Whenever I said I would achieve something, buy something, or take them to do something, they would believe it. But after growing up, I realized life isn't as simple as we thought as children. There were things I didn't accomplish, jobs I didn't continue, and my health made my life take many detours. Later Netflix became something Mom paid for, Dad thought it was a waste, and eventually no one subscribed anymore. I always felt like I had disappointed my younger siblings many times. But they never really held it against me. Maybe the person I couldn't get over was always myself. So this time, because of a collaboration, I had the chance to watch Netflix again, and the first thing that came to mind was my brother's once-proud words. Well, at least big sister can watch again now🤣 As for 《SubscriptionBoyfriend》—— The first few episodes really made me laugh non-stop, especially when Lee Soo-hyuk appeared, my mind was only thinking: "Who are the other guys?"🤣🤣🤣 After that, the plot... um... I started silently fast-forwarding. From episode 5 all the way to episode 10.😂 By the end, I understood what it was trying to say. The ideal type, the dreamy type, the man with perfect conditions—seems to have everything, but in the end, the one who stays might still be an ordinary, honest, even somewhat plain person. It's a kind of "ordinary love, ordinary romance." Is it romantic? I admit, it's very romantic. But I'm also very sure—— This is no longer the life I most want to pursue now. When I was younger, I also thought love should be grand and passionate. Later I realized some grand endings are called losing both the person and the money.😂 So now it's not that I'm afraid of love, nor that I "can't find love." But after going through some things, I really started rethinking: Does life have to be proven through love? I thought of the Buddhist saying "The mundane world is also a place of practice." Family is a place of practice, friendship is a place of practice, love is a place of practice, work is a place of practice; even our attachments to success, appearance, money, winning and losing, and "I must become someone" might all be our own lessons. So after watching 《SubscriptionBoyfriend》, my biggest takeaway wasn't "I really want to fall in love." But rather: It turns out the ordinary can also be very romantic, it's just that the kind of life I'm looking for now might be something else. Of course, I still have to mention my BLACKPINK!🖤💗 I think JISOO's acting is really good, and the more I watch, the more I feel BLACKPINK's four girls are really amazing. Singing, dancing, stage presence, fashion, endorsements, drama—they've been moving toward the international stage all along. What we see is them shining now, but behind it is years of training during trainee days and after debut. So sometimes I feel envious and can't help comparing myself to them. But later I thought, there's really no need. They have their lives, and I have my own lessons. I didn't become the "big sister who can do anything" that my younger siblings imagined when they were little—this I do regret. But the story of life isn't over yet. The promises I made in the past don't all have to be fulfilled. At least from now on, promise less and actually do more. Maybe one day, my brother won't need to show off: "My sister bought Netflix for me." But can casually say: "My sister is doing pretty well now." For me, that might be enough.❤️ I still recommend 《SubscriptionBoyfriend》! The beginning is hilarious, the middle made me want to fast-forward a lot, and in the end I was somehow moved by the romance.🤣 Next up—Lisa's 《The White Lotus》! BLINK keep chasing.🖤💗 #SubscriptionBoyfriend #NetflixDrama #BLACKPINK #BLINK #DramaReview <img src="https://static2.fansone.co/images/17af2460-66d3-45eb-8124-b847b504df70.avif" /><img src="https://static2.fansone.co/images/db097398-6205-49c7-8b33-bbb9917bbd8c.avif" /><img src="https://static2.fansone.co/images/1e78b5f8-c99b-46e0-a713-495ef234256a.avif" /><img src="https://static2.fansone.co/images/f1bd2f17-a25b-4729-a60a-aa5d0299e252.avif" /><img src="https://static2.fansone.co/images/3a90bcd0-387a-4a0e-915f-327ce24bdb96.avif" />My brother once said something I still remember to this day. When he was in college, during New Year while chatting with relatives, he happily said: "I have to show off one thing—my sister bought Netflix for me!" Unexpectedly later, because I didn't continue as a beautician, the Netflix fee became something Mom helped pay for, Dad thought the expense was a bit wasteful, and eventually the family stopped subscribing. Actually from childhood to now, I've always felt I've disappointed my younger siblings many times, but they never really held it against me. They also know that sometimes I'm good at "making big promises," saying many things I want to accomplish. But when they were little they truly believed, always thinking big sister could definitely do it. Because of this, I've always carried some guilt and self-blame. My health has never been great, and my temper and personality also have many areas needing adjustment, so I often feel I haven't become a good role model as the big sister. Recently, because of a collaboration opportunity, I could watch Netflix through the sharing feature, so I finally watched BLACKPINK JISOO's 《SubscriptionBoyfriend》, which I'd been looking forward to. The first three episodes I really thought were great! But after episode 4, the plot seemed to start going off track a bit (laughs). As for who the other male leads in the story are, I don't have much impression. Maybe because I watched on computer and didn't check actor info on my phone, so after finishing, some roles still felt a bit vague. All in all, I think the male lead the story really wants to present is actually a very honest, sincere, and ordinary person. But I think many viewers probably focused on the "ideal man" Lee Soo-hyuk? At least while watching I was really focused on him the whole time (laughs). And right around the time this Netflix series aired, I had shared and revealed some past experiences in some relationship-related Facebook groups. Unexpectedly, when I later shared about one of the male supporting characters in 《SubscriptionBoyfriend》, his styling happened to resemble someone I had revealed about before. So at the time I was actually worried others might misunderstand. Some even said I "can't find love," which felt a bit baffling. Actually from childhood to now I've always felt I haven't done anything particularly impressive. Maybe like Seo Mirae played by JISOO in 《SubscriptionBoyfriend》, I also have my own ordinary side. Of course, in reality JISOO is an international superstar, so there's no way to compare. BLACKPINK reaching today isn't just because of their good looks. They can sing, dance, perform, and also engage in drama, hosting, fashion, and brand endorsements. Besides their natural conditions, there's also very long periods of training and effort behind them. So I also thought of the saying: "Everyone is born with talent that will be useful." But when it comes to my family, I still feel some guilt toward my brother. As for my sister, she's now more focused on Buddhism, so I'm more at ease. Recently I finally finished watching 《SubscriptionBoyfriend》. To be honest, I pretty much fast-forwarded from episode 5 onward, and ended up watching straight to episode 10. After watching, I still think the male lead is really too ordinary! (laughs) Instead, when Lee Soo-hyuk appeared in episodes 1 and 2, I really found it hilarious and memorable. But by the last episode, I suddenly felt this ending was actually quite romantic. In the end, it's a kind of "ordinary." Ordinary love, ordinary romance. I also want to say clearly first that I didn't suddenly want to fall in love after watching this drama. It's just that after watching, I had a feeling of "How could it be like this?"—a bit strange, a bit unexpected. Also, that device in the drama you can wear on your eyes to enter a virtual game world—I couldn't remember what it was called at first. It should be something like a VR headset! If real life really had the kind of device in 《SubscriptionBoyfriend》, where wearing it lets you enter that virtual world, I think it would feel pretty interesting too. All in all, 《SubscriptionBoyfriend》 overall is actually pretty good to watch, just some parts in the middle really made me want to scream (laughs). But I still love my BLACKPINK very much! BLINK, BLINK, BLINK!🖤💗 Although JISOO isn't the member I usually pay the most attention to, many people say she's very beautiful, and after watching 《SubscriptionBoyfriend》, I also think her acting is really quite good. As for the feeling this drama left me with in the end, it's: "Romantic ordinary, and ordinary romance." But I'm also very sure this isn't the life I want to pursue now. When I was younger, I also had grand and passionate romances, but in the end might have nothing left, or even lost both the person and the money. So now I'm not afraid of falling in love, but after seeing and experiencing some things, I'm not as yearning for these plots as before. Instead, I thought of a phrase sometimes seen in Buddhist halls: "The mundane world is a place of practice, the mundane world is also a place of practice." My understanding is that the mundane world isn't just love. Family, friendship, love, work, self, and all kinds of attachments in our hearts are actually lessons life requires us to learn. So these are some of my takeaways after watching 《SubscriptionBoyfriend》. Overall, I would still recommend everyone to watch it. JISOO's acting also made me feel it's quite good! And my next drama-watching target is Lisa's 《The White Lotus》. I'm also curious if Lisa's movie has already been released? Oh my god! I really feel the development of BLACKPINK's four girls now is too amazing. They're no longer just Korean idols, but step by step moving onto the international stage. From trainee days, to official debut, then accumulating so many years of experience, reaching today really wasn't easy. Although I only truly started liking BLACKPINK after they began developing their individual careers, I still admire them very much. I also know there's no need to compare my life with theirs. They have their talents and have put in a lot of effort afterward. Like when Lisa talked about her training journey in the past, it also made me feel that when someone looks so dazzling on stage, they must have gone through a huge amount of practice behind the scenes. So success really isn't that easy. For myself, my health condition does affect my life, but I also hope I won't completely give up on trying because of it. Everyone has different conditions and different life paths. What I can do is keep moving forward within my own capabilities. All in all—— Recommend 《SubscriptionBoyfriend》 to everyone! Although while watching I wanted to laugh and fast-forward at the same time, and some parts even made me want to scream, I still finished it in the end. Ordinary love, ordinary romance. Maybe not the life I want, but still a story worth watching and that made me think about many things. Netflix's 《SubscriptionBoyfriend》, recommended to everyone.🖤💗

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<img src="https://static2.fansone.co/images/f09c9127-2bb1-431f-9a79-e0692a07fc28.avif" />《I am one of the victims of META AI social media, but I am still trying to shine.》 🥹📱🌈 Sometimes I really can't help but smile bitterly. Over the years of managing social media, I've spent a lot of time taking photos, editing videos, writing articles, replying to comments, and also working hard to take on sponsorships and share my life. Behind every post, it's not as simple as just hitting publish—it's the result of spending a lot of time brainstorming, shooting, editing photos, and revising repeatedly. Then one day, the algorithm changed, reach dropped, the account got restricted, and I even encountered platform flagging anomalies where content became hard to see. That feeling is like suddenly losing power in a room you've worked hard to organize, forcing you to find your way in the dark. As a creator, I occasionally secretly seek some validation! (╥﹏╥) Yesterday there were people watching, but today it feels like talking to thin air; clearly putting in real effort, yet unsure if the next post will also sink without a trace. Sometimes I wonder, "Is it because I'm not good enough?" But later I gradually realized it's not necessarily that I'm not good, but that social media platforms are constantly changing. Today short videos are popular, tomorrow text is emphasized again; today the algorithm likes A, tomorrow it might prefer B. What creators can do is adapt while continuing to create. So now I've decided to look at this from a different angle. Since reach is low, make the content warmer; since follower growth is slow, cherish every person willing to stop and read. Even if only one person likes it, I believe it's someone who truly likes my work. Occasionally I still mutter at my phone: "META, did you see me today? I've been working really hard!" 🤣 Then the next second, I quietly pick up my phone again to continue taking photos, writing posts, and studying new features. Because creation isn't just about numbers. It's also a record, a form of companionship, and an expression of love for life. If you're also a social media creator who's ever doubted yourself because of algorithms, reach, or view counts, don't rush to deny your own value. Data fluctuates, but the accumulated skills, works, and experience will always stay with you. I think I'll continue being that slightly mischievous, slightly whiny creator who occasionally seeks validation but refuses to give up. Because one day, I believe my efforts will be seen by more people. (´▽`)🌸 Words of reflection:"As long as there is a wish in your heart and your steps don't stop, every step in life counts." 🌼 #METAAIVictim #SocialMediaCreator #KOLDaily #Algorithm #KeepCreating

《I am one of the victims of META AI social media, but I am still trying to shine.》 🥹📱🌈

<img src="https://static2.fansone.co/images/6f1ad550-6e43-4675-86ec-4345a690882c.avif" /> I've always thought the scariest thing about BLACKPINK isn't that "the clothes are expensive."It's that—when the same cropped top, cargo pants, leather, or boots are worn by different people, the vibe becomes completely different. Especially Jennie and Lisa.One is like "I just threw this on casually, but now the whole world is studying what I'm wearing"; the other is like "I'm just here to dance, and by the way, I'm stepping on the fashion world" 😂

<img src="https://static2.fansone.co/images/6f1ad550-6e43-4675-86ec-4345a690882c.avif" /> 我一直覺得，BLACKPINK 最可怕的地方不是「衣服很貴」。而是——同樣一件短版上衣、工裝褲、皮革、靴子，換一個人穿，氣質就完全不一樣。 尤其 Jennie 和 Lisa。一個像是「我只是隨便穿，結果全世界都在研究我穿什麼」；另一個則像「我今天只是來跳舞，順便把時尚圈踩在腳下」😂 </p

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